Family Law

Can parents reclaim money they gave a married couple to buy an apartment if the couple divorces in Israel?

Usually not, unless the parents can prove the money was a loan. Israeli family courts start from a presumption that money parents contribute toward their child's marital home is a gift, and the parent claiming a loan carries the burden of proving it, normally with written evidence. Section 5 of the Spouses (Property Relations) Law 5733-1973 excludes a gift to one spouse from the balancing of assets, but money invested in an apartment registered to both spouses is often treated as a gift to the couple. A signed loan agreement or a court-approved property agreement changes the analysis.

Two different claims arise, and they are often confused. The first is the parents' own claim that they lent the money and want it back, which is decided under general contract law and turns on evidence of a repayment obligation such as a written agreement, a promissory note or a registered mortgage. The second is the spouses' dispute over whose money it was, which the Family Court decides under the Spouses (Property Relations) Law. A gift made to one spouse alone stays outside the balancing under Section 5, but courts look at how the money was used. Funds paid into an apartment registered in both names are frequently found to have been intended for both spouses.

Families from abroad often move money informally, with a transfer labeled only as help with the apartment. When the marriage ends, a parent's claim filed years later without documents usually fails, and a claim that surfaces only after divorce proceedings begin invites suspicion that it was invented to shift assets. Parents who expect repayment should sign a short loan agreement with both spouses at the time of the transfer and state whether interest or linkage applies. A spouse who wants parental money kept as separate property can record that in a property agreement approved under Section 2 of the same Law. Our guide to dividing assets on divorce in Israel explains how the marital estate is calculated.

⚖ In Practice
  • Governing law: Sections 2 and 5, Spouses (Property Relations) Law 5733-1973; Gift Law 5728-1968
  • Competent authority: Family Court (Beit HaMishpat LeInyanei Mishpacha), where claims between parents and a married couple over family property are commonly heard
  • Burden of proof: the parent claiming a loan must prove it, and courts give the most weight to documents made at the time of the transfer
  • Fees/amounts: Israel has no gift tax, so a parental transfer of, for example, NIS 400,000 toward an apartment is not taxed as a gift (2026)
  • Timeline: a claim to recover a loan is generally subject to the 7-year limitation period, counted from when repayment fell due
  • Protective step: a loan agreement signed by both spouses, or a mortgage in the parents' favor registered at the Land Registry, is the strongest evidence that the money was lent

From the full guide: Division of Assets on Divorce in Israel: Complete Guide


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